A man can get grounds for divorce if he finds out that his wife has cheated on him. Divorce would be a good option but a better option would be to save the marriage and that is even if the reason for the divorce is adultery.
You love your wife that much that you are willing to forgive her and win her back.
If you want to get your wife back, you should determine the reasons why your wife wants to leave you. Are you too controlling over her? Did the two of you fight over your finances? Have you been taking her for granted? Does she feel special? Do you still make her feel special like when the marriage was still new? Is she still happy in your marriage? These are some of the questions you should begin to answer.
When a marriage is starting to slip, one spouse starts to take for granted the relationship all together. This happens to the extent that the spouse asks for a little space. With that move, that spouse risks the feeling of pain and rejection. The spouse may have to deal with the problem on his own.
To know the very reasons why a marriage failed cannot be easily resolved. But earning back the respect of your wife is a start. To get you wife back, you need to show to your wife that you are worth the respect that she gives you. If you are continuously giving someone respect and that respect is not even appreciated or reflected at any point in time, you would stop. The same goes true when it comes to giving respect in marriage. Be the kind of person to be respected by your own spouse.
One of the issues why wives leave their husbands is men’s addiction to pornography. Unfortunately, men do not consider pornography as a problem to their relationship with their wives. They even see it as an ingredient to make their married life even more exciting. But this just makes the wives feel disrespected.
Husbands need to stop looking at porn for their wives to give back their respect to them. If the problem is already too big to handle, a marriage counselor may be needed.
Gary Chapman, an expert on marriage and family life, formulated these five ways to communicate well with your spouse so you can get around to saving your marriage:
- Words of affirmation
- Physical touch
- Quality time
- Acts of service
A husband had lost the love of his wife because of work and because he had neglected them. He would not leave her however because of their children. With that, he opted to sleep in a separate room. The husband, realizing what he has lost, promised to himself to win his wife back.
He did it by starting from the smallest things. He would start by making her breakfast. She would not touch what he prepared but she saw the perseverance of her husband. Eventually, she came around and one thanked him for doing it. He eventually got her wife back.
Now, go on and get your wife back. All you need is a little perseverance.