Are you in that terrible place in your marriage where you’re saying my wife never wants to make love?

That happens a lot in marriages, and it’s never a good sign.

In fact it’s a very good indication of what your wife thinks about you, and her attraction level toward you. And don’t ever believe the myth that this is just “what happens” after being in a marriage for a while. It’s not supposed to happen!

Why You’re Worried and Saying My Wife Never Wants to Make Love

There’s a very solid reason that your wife doesn’t want to make love with you. It’s simple and it’s a problem.

It’s the fact that she’s not attracted to you. Well duh you say, no kidding. But here’s the problem. You’ve probably been conditioned by society to think that this is just what happens in marriage. Or you’ve looked at yourself in the mirror and thought maybe there was something wrong with your appearance that she just isn’t into anymore.

Both wrong! She’s not attracted to you anymore because of the man that you’ve become (or not become) in her eyes.

Now here’s the tricky part, and what most husbands don’t understand. She might not even realize herself that this is why she’s not attracted to you anymore. So in other words if you’re saying my wife never wants to make love, or that she’s not attracted to you, she probably doesn’t even know why she’s not. I guess in a way this sort of gives you the upper hand…like a little sort of secret. That sounds way too conspiracy theory…but here’s what I mean.

Your wife has DNA in her, dating from primitive days that makes her instinctively want a MAN who’s a true MAN. A guy that she really can’t tame in a way.

Here’s proof! Back when you were dating, did you ever like or fall in love with a woman who was in love with a jerk. You wondered what the heck she saw in this guy? Why doesn’t she like me when I’m so nice to her?

Well the fact is that she saw that guy as more of a man with VALUE. In the caveman days it would have been the fact that she saw him as the one that could protect her, give her some good healthy babies, and basically keep her alive. He was the guy who would be the man of the house. And he couldn’t be sort of sissified.

What most guys don’t get though is that this instinct doesn’t change just because a woman has gotten married. She still instinctively wants the same exact thing in a man. However being that society has changed, her conscious mind has become a paradox and now she’s doing things against her own nature to take the manliness away from you.

In short, she’s turning YOU into exactly what she doesn’t want. Sounds weird but it’s absolutely true.

I didn’t believe it either, but when I found this out, and started doing the right things and becoming the man of the house (the right way), I instantly became more attractive to my wife. She almost couldn’t help herself, although the transition was at first a little dicey. It was against what she consciously thought she wanted me to be, but she couldn’t help but REALLY enjoy what I was becoming.

And basically once I started doing these things correctly, I no longer had to say my wife never wants to make love.