Sometimes separation is vital for people to realize the true worth of their mate. If you feel that your ex wife is still your soul mate and you want to get her back, you will have to work very hard. Here are the things that you should do to get your ex wife back.

Don’t start stalking her
The moment you realize that you want your ex wife back, your adrenalin kicks in and you set out to get her. If you are doing this or thinking about doing so then you can forget about getting her back. Stalking her and trying to find out what’s going on in her life will only take you away from her.

Work on your ways
Use the time that you have alone to understand why you are alone today. What were the things that your ex wife wanted to change in you. Go on an introspective journey to discover the reasons behind all that has happened and work to rectify them. Believe me it’s going to come in handy as she will want you to tell her and you don’t want to be wrong about these things then.

Get in touch with her
Once you have your issues sorted and your feelings are in control you need to get back in touch with your ex wife. Start with an e mail or a text if you cannot have a conversation just yet. Just make the move and be patient if she takes time to respond.

Tell her you just want to be friends
When you speak to her tell her that you would like to have her presence in your life. Things might not have worked out for you two as a couple but you were great as friends. Tell her that you have lost the wife but it’s the friend in her that you don’t want to lose. This will give her a reason to be friends with you.

Don’t get too personal
Make sure that you never get too personal with your wife. Don’t ask her especially about her relationship status and never try to sabotage her dates. She will get the drift and will kick you out of her life.

Be a good friend
When you ask to be her friend, be her friend. Have fun with her, spend enough time with her and help her enjoy life. After all you know her like no one else. Once she falls for your friendship she will begin to want to come back to you.

Gradually get talking of the old times
Once she is settled as a friend you can slowly start talking about the goof, funny and hilarious times spent together. The memories will warn her up to want to get back with you.